Well that is the official answer.  However, most of the time, this is not an overnight process!  Many people require the aid of their physician, their family, their friends, their church, their distant cousins, and most importantly their God to acheive this attainable feat!

So while you work on that… what do you do if you are a 30’something smoker?

“MS “asked this very question.

The pill is out if you are 35 years or older and a smoker.  The estrogen in The Pill is a problem, but there may even be risk associated with the progesterone! (That’s still being studied…)

Discuss with your physcian the possibility of using an intrauterine device (IUD) such as the Paragard.  This is a highly effective form of birth control!  However, every person has an individual set of circumstances which make contact with a primary care physician vital!  During the visit, you could even ask your doc about quitting cigarette use

Condoms used properly may be the best option.  They are readily available with very few side effects!  (Just make sure to avoid latex if you have an allergy!) 

The choice is yours just be sure to involve your physician.  As a smoker, you increase your risk of cardiovascular disease with or without The Pill…

Best of luck “MS” and keep us posted!  Sharing your personal experience will definitely help us learn!

If anyone else have thoughts are suggestions, please comment below so we can all become more enlighted

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) is a serious condition where a female’s reproductive organs become infected and inflamed. It can spread from one organ to the rest of the reproductive organs and affect the tissues around the organs as well.

Many women do not know about PID but it is quite common. It affects 1 million women in the United States a year and 250,000 are hospitalized due to the infection.

Causes

PID is most commonly caused by gonorrhea and Chlamydia, two bacterial sexually transmitted infections. The bacteria are transmitted through bodily fluids. Therefore, young sexually active women are the most at risk. However, women at any age can develop this infection. Also, women with multiple sex partners are at a higher risk as well as those that use an intrauterine device as a form of birth control.

Symptoms

PID is not easily diagnosed because the signs are not always apparent in many patients. These symptoms include:

• Severe pain in lower abdomen
• Fever, nausea and vomiting
• Irregular period
• Discharge from vagina
• Back pain
• Painful intercourse and urination

These symptoms are worse at the end of the menstrual cycle and the first few days after the cycle is over.

Why is PID so dangerous?

PID is an infection and infections get worse over time if not treated. The infection can destroy the tissue that makes up the female reproductive organs. This can cause severe scarring and chronic pain in the pelvic region. This infection can also make a woman infertile. The reproductive organs become inflamed. Therefore, eggs cannot move through the fallopian tubes efficiently and the sperm cannot fertilize it.

In some horrible cases, women have become pregnant. Unfortunately, the egg can become trapped in the fallopian tube or in another part of the reproductive area that it should not be. The sperm can sometimes get to the egg and it becomes fertilized. A small embryo will begin to grow in the small space and not survive the conditions. This is called an ectopic pregnancy. This can potentially rupture the fallopian tube and cause severe issues. It can cause internal bleeding and even death. Women cannot reproduce in this condition and are infertile.

PID needs to be treated as soon as possible by a healthcare professional. It is a serious disease and needs to be taken care of before it causes permanent damage to a woman’s reproductive organs.

Prevention

Since the infection is caused by bacteria that are transmitted through bodily fluids, the best prevention is abstinence.

However, if abstinence is not a person’s first choice, the use of protection, such as condoms, during sex is another option. Trying to prevent the spread of the bacteria will work as well, however, it is not 100 percent effective.  THE PILL DOES NOT PREVENT SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES!

 How important do you think it is for young women to be aware of PID as well as other reproductive infections?

Why should a condom always be worn during sexual contact?

A condom is the most effective way to prevent the spread of the HIV virus during sexual contact.

A latex condom creates a barrier that is 98% effective in preventing pregnancy, as well as protects against bacteria and certain viruses.

Condoms can reduce the risk of HPV and the risk of cervical cancer.

Condom Facts You Should Know

-           Condoms should be worn anytime there is sexual contact, whether it is vaginal, anal or oral.

-           An animal skin condom is not as effective as a latex condom because there are holes large enough for the HIV virus to get through. Latex condoms offer better protection! 

-           Never use an old condom. Always check the expiration date. If a condom is expired do not use it, because the chance of the condom ripping increases.

-           Do not use two condoms at once. The friction between the two condoms rubbing together can cause a break.

-           Never reuse a condom.

-           Make sure to get all of the air out of the condom once it is applied to the penis. Air bubbles can cause the condoms to break during intercourse.

-           Not wearing a condom can have a negative effect on your life. Remember that wearing a condom is easier (and cheaper!)  than taking care of a baby or treating an STD.

-      If you are a teenager and it sounds like everything I’ve just said is a bit too much to handle, you can decide to NOT have sex and move on to other important issues…

Controversies

One controversy surrounding condoms is whether or not they should be available to teens under the age of 18 and whether or not schools should make them readily available.

A study in Massachusetts would suggest that condoms should be distributed in schools.  In that state, many high schools make condoms available to students.  The state also has a teen pregnancy rate of 22 per 1,000 girls—a rate far below the national average.

What are your thoughts?  Do you think high school students should have access to contraceptives in their schools?  Teens- do you think that access to contraceptives would make a difference in you life?